Hi, everyone. I do not have many friends. I think it's a complex question. Include individual, social relationship, group, and your attitude of friendship. Finally, I believe Yuan. Yuan has the meaning reason, cause, it means some kind of causality. Yuan as in Yuanfen, it means luck which brought people together. It also has some sense of determinism.
Hi, Haoqing. I agree with you. This question is complex!!! The word, friends, can fit to many different definitions, and we cannot choose one clear answer. I think it is difficult to define the difference between acquaintances and friends, and this answer is very different each people.
Hi, Haoqing. You are right when you said that is a complex question and include an individual, social relationship and attitute. However, I think each person know who are your close friends and their acquaintances.
Hi, everyone. I am someone who have many friends. There is a guy asked me a question before. He asked me who is your best friends in your past life? I thought about it for a long time and didn't give him answers, because I don't know who is my best friend, I can not chose only one. I think different friends plays a different role in my life, I don't think the friend which I can drink together is not better than the friend which I can share secrets. Just some events I wanted to do with this friend and some events I want to do with the another friend. But, first they are people I see as friends. A friend is someone who needs to share the joys and sorrows. We often use friends who only can share the joys to express the frailty of friendship. However, I would like to say that it is not appropriate that friends just share sorrows together, but they don't share joys. I have a friend, she always with me in my most sadness time. I am very grateful to her, but every time I have happy things to share with her, or invite her to go out to play together, she is always very reluctant. For long time, I don't feel happy when I together with her..Thus, sharing joys and sorrows are all important between friends. Just like a line in the film "Mountains May Depart", "Each person can only accompany you to take a short way". Friends are also the same. In the future, you guys may have million reasons to separate, so cherish every second with friends now.
Hi, Wei. I understand that to decide the best friend is so difficult thing. In my case, I have one certain best friend called Midori in my life. I met her when I was five, and stayed together for a long time. Maybe, I shared more time with her than my family when I was an elementary school student. My parents said she was one member of my family. However, I did not play something with Midori in the school because her character was very different from me. As you can imagine, I was a very active girl and sometime played the soccer outside with boys, but Midori loved reading and drawing inside. I always played something with Saki who has similar character to me in the school. Both Midori and Saki were the best friends, so I could not choose one at this time. After graduating from the elementary school, I sometime meet Midori and always know her information whereas Saki is not. Now if someone asks me, who is the best friend in your life? I will answer Midori.
Hi, everyone. It is such a difficult question to answer because I do not have a clear definition of friends. Indeed, I know a lot of people; however, I do not know others think Akane is my friend or not. If someone thinks Akane is my friend, I also think he is my friend; on the other hand, if not, he may not be my friend. My definition depends on other's thought because I feel sad if someone who is my friends say Akane is not my friend. If I know the name and face, everyone could be my friends! I do not reject others because I do not reduce my possibility.
Hi, Akane. I feel the same as you, this question is very difficult to answer. However, sometimes I think the same as you that you know a lot of people and they sais that is your friend. People said that because it is a empathy way to define a nice person or acquaintances. However, you know who is really you real friends.
Hi Akane, we are all confusing about the definition of the friends. And I don't know too. Definition of friends is different from each person, and nobody can say your definition is wrong. So I just think it is not thing that I can decide, it means it is decided by other people.
Hi, everyone. At first I will define what tha's mean friends. Friend is a person you know well and like a lot, but who is usually not a member of your family. Personally, I have an special group of friends but not many because I know they always what the best for me. Also, they always hear me and give me their opinion when I need help and my family can not help me. I think you make friends in differents ways such as empathy, if both like to do the same activity, if you work with someone and give you a nice energy and then you start to inveted to social event for know more about this person and you build a friendship. In my case, I have many friends and sometimes they just come to me without start a conversation first. I think is more empathy and positive energy.
Hi Anna. I agree with you. People need friends when they don't wanna share secrets with their families. Families can not accompany with us in the whole life, but best friends can do it. Friends don't need to start a conversation, friends have many words gonna say when they are together.
I have a friend who has a lot of followers in social media. However, do you think he has a lot of friends? I don't think so. I think these his followers will not help him when he is in trouble. They can cut off the friendship easily. I don't think that is friend. So I think small number of friends, which has stronger relationship with you, is more important. You should find one friend who can help you when you are in trouble.
Hi, everyone. I do not have many friends. I think it's a complex question. Include individual, social relationship, group, and your attitude of friendship. Finally, I believe Yuan. Yuan has the meaning reason, cause, it means some kind of causality. Yuan as in Yuanfen, it means luck which brought people together. It also has some sense of determinism.
ReplyDeleteHi, Haoqing. I agree with you. This question is complex!!! The word, friends, can fit to many different definitions, and we cannot choose one clear answer. I think it is difficult to define the difference between acquaintances and friends, and this answer is very different each people.
DeleteHi, Haoqing. You are right when you said that is a complex question and include an individual, social relationship and attitute. However, I think each person know who are your close friends and their acquaintances.
DeleteHi, everyone. I am someone who have many friends. There is a guy asked me a question before. He asked me who is your best friends in your past life? I thought about it for a long time and didn't give him answers, because I don't know who is my best friend, I can not chose only one. I think different friends plays a different role in my life, I don't think the friend which I can drink together is not better than the friend which I can share secrets. Just some events I wanted to do with this friend and some events I want to do with the another friend. But, first they are people I see as friends. A friend is someone who needs to share the joys and sorrows. We often use friends who only can share the joys to express the frailty of friendship. However, I would like to say that it is not appropriate that friends just share sorrows together, but they don't share joys. I have a friend, she always with me in my most sadness time. I am very grateful to her, but every time I have happy things to share with her, or invite her to go out to play together, she is always very reluctant. For long time, I don't feel happy when I together with her..Thus, sharing joys and sorrows are all important between friends. Just like a line in the film "Mountains May Depart", "Each person can only accompany you to take a short way". Friends are also the same. In the future, you guys may have million reasons to separate, so cherish every second with friends now.
ReplyDeleteHi, Wei. I understand that to decide the best friend is so difficult thing. In my case, I have one certain best friend called Midori in my life. I met her when I was five, and stayed together for a long time. Maybe, I shared more time with her than my family when I was an elementary school student. My parents said she was one member of my family. However, I did not play something with Midori in the school because her character was very different from me. As you can imagine, I was a very active girl and sometime played the soccer outside with boys, but Midori loved reading and drawing inside. I always played something with Saki who has similar character to me in the school. Both Midori and Saki were the best friends, so I could not choose one at this time. After graduating from the elementary school, I sometime meet Midori and always know her information whereas Saki is not. Now if someone asks me, who is the best friend in your life? I will answer Midori.
DeleteHi, everyone. It is such a difficult question to answer because I do not have a clear definition of friends. Indeed, I know a lot of people; however, I do not know others think Akane is my friend or not. If someone thinks Akane is my friend, I also think he is my friend; on the other hand, if not, he may not be my friend. My definition depends on other's thought because I feel sad if someone who is my friends say Akane is not my friend. If I know the name and face, everyone could be my friends! I do not reject others because I do not reduce my possibility.
ReplyDeleteHi, Akane. I feel the same as you, this question is very difficult to answer. However, sometimes I think the same as you that you know a lot of people and they sais that is your friend. People said that because it is a empathy way to define a nice person or acquaintances. However, you know who is really you real friends.
DeleteHi Akane, we are all confusing about the definition of the friends. And I don't know too. Definition of friends is different from each person, and nobody can say your definition is wrong. So I just think it is not thing that I can decide, it means it is decided by other people.
DeleteHi, everyone. At first I will define what tha's mean friends. Friend is a person you know well and like a lot, but who is usually not a member of your family. Personally, I have an special group of friends but not many because I know they always what the best for me. Also, they always hear me and give me their opinion when I need help and my family can not help me. I think you make friends in differents ways such as empathy, if both like to do the same activity, if you work with someone and give you a nice energy and then you start to inveted to social event for know more about this person and you build a friendship. In my case, I have many friends and sometimes they just come to me without start a conversation first. I think is more empathy and positive energy.
ReplyDeleteHi Anna. I agree with you. People need friends when they don't wanna share secrets with their families. Families can not accompany with us in the whole life, but best friends can do it. Friends don't need to start a conversation, friends have many words gonna say when they are together.
DeleteI have a friend who has a lot of followers in social media. However, do you think he has a lot of friends? I don't think so. I think these his followers will not help him when he is in trouble. They can cut off the friendship easily. I don't think that is friend. So I think small number of friends, which has stronger relationship with you, is more important. You should find one friend who can help you when you are in trouble.
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